The key to a fulfilling career is knowing yourself. This guide to MBTI temperaments reveals your natural strengths, weaknesses, and career paths that truly fit.
In this insightful video, our Human Minds founder and personality coach, Tuan Le, will quickly walk you through the enlightening work by David Kiersey built upon the MBTI frameworks to uncover the 4 main personality groups in our society. Learn what is your best-fit temperament and the corresponding strengths, weaknesses and ideal career paths.
Video timeline:
00:00 – 02:44 – Introduction of the theory 02:44 – 05:22 – The Idealist Temperament 05:22 – 09:25 – The Rational Temperament 09:25 – 11:25 – The Artisan Temperament 11:25 – 14:35 – The Guardian Temperament 14:35 – 17:10 – Reflection exercise
Are you tired of wasting time on bad dates that lead nowhere or result in a downward spiral of disappointment every time? Maybe the key here is to take a step back and reflect on the more fundamental questions of what are the signs of love? What is truly important in a relationship? And How to quickly find people with similar values?
It’s certainly a big topic but given the spirit of Valentine’s day, Our Human Minds founder and personality coach Tuan Le will share his passion on this topic. This concise yet enlightening video will hopefully give you a bigger perspective on the nature of love and long-term compatibility with personality science.
Remember to pause the video and reflect (preferably with a pen and paper ) as you go along this facilitated reflection video.
Video outline:
00:00 – 02:52 Discover the components of true love with the Triangular theory of love 02:52 – 06:25 Understand the role of personalities in both short-term attraction and long-term compatibility 06:25 – 15:15 Explore the 4 group of temperaments and their core values 15:15 – 20:28 Statistics and discussion on the temperaments’ compatibilities and chemistry
In the modern era of personal and professional development, various personality frameworks have become increasingly popular for helping individuals understand themselves and others. Among these, the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) and the Enneagram stand out as deep, insightful tools for long-term personal growth. However, other models like the Big Five, Emotional Intelligence (EQ), and StrengthsFinder also offer unique perspectives and are popular in different settings. This article provides a comprehensive comparison of these frameworks, exploring their origins, theoretical foundations, practical applications, pros and cons to help you achieve a more discerning perspective:
1. Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI)
Origins and Background
The MBTI was developed by Katharine Cook Briggs and her daughter Isabel Briggs Myers during World War II. They based it on Carl Jungโs theory of psychological types, which emphasizes different cognitive processes for interacting with the world. Their goal was to create a system that could help people understand themselves and others, especially in areas of communication, decision-making, and work preferences.
Theoretical Essence
MBTI categorizes individuals into 16 personality types based on four dichotomies:
Extraversion (E) vs. Introversion (I),
Sensing (S) vs. Intuition (N),
Thinking (T) vs. Feeling (F), and
Judging (J) vs. Perceiving (P).
Each type represents a preferred way of processing information, making decisions, and interacting with the world. It highlights the role of dominant and auxiliary cognitive functions, which are essential for self-awareness and understanding the behaviors of others.
Practical Application
The MBTI is highly valued in corporate environments, relationship counseling, and personal development. It helps individuals improve communication, enhance team collaboration, and develop emotional intelligence. Its strength lies in its focus on how people think and operate, which can provide actionable insights for personal growth. However, critics argue that MBTI lacks scientific rigor and can be oversimplifying.
2. Enneagram
Origins and Background
The Enneagram has ancient roots, believed to originate from various spiritual and philosophical traditions, including early Christian mysticism and Sufi teachings. It was modernized in the 20th century by Oscar Ichazo and Claudio Naranjo, who expanded its psychological depth.
Theoretical Essence
The Enneagram categorizes individuals into nine distinct personality types, each associated with core motivations, fears, and desires. Unlike MBTI, which focuses on cognitive functions, the Enneagram emphasizes the emotional and motivational drivers behind behavior. It offers a dynamic model where individuals can shift along โgrowthโ and โstressโ lines, reflecting how they adapt to life circumstances.
Practical Application
The Enneagram is often used in both personal and spiritual development, as it provides a pathway for individuals to explore deep-rooted behavioral patterns. Its holistic approach allows for personal transformation by identifying key motivations and emotional triggers. However, the lack of scientific validation, similar to MBTI, is a common criticism.
3. Big Five (OCEAN)
Origins and Background
The Big Five Personality Traits model emerged from decades of psychological research and is considered one of the most scientifically robust personality frameworks. It stems from studies in the 1940s and 50s that aimed to empirically measure personality traits.
Theoretical Essence
The Big Five model measures five core dimensions of personality:
Openness to Experience,
Conscientiousness,
Extraversion,
Agreeableness, and
Neuroticism (OCEAN).
These traits exist on a spectrum rather than as dichotomies, making it a fluid framework. The model’s strength lies in its empirical foundation, which allows for predictive power in various life outcomes such as career success and relationship satisfaction.
Practical Application
The Big Five is widely used in psychological research and clinical settings due to its strong scientific backing. However, its downside is the lack of depth when it comes to cognitive processing or inner motivations. While it provides valuable insights, it may not be as engaging or transformative for personal growth as MBTI or Enneagram.
Pros: This model is scientifically validated and widely accepted in psychology. It measures traits like Openness, Conscientiousness, Extraversion, Agreeableness, and Neuroticism.
Cons: It doesnโt offer the same depth of insights into cognitive functions or personal motivations as MBTI or Enneagram, which might make it less engaging for personal growth enthusiasts.
The DISC Personality Modelfocuses on four primary behavioral traits: Dominance, Influence, Steadiness, and Conscientiousness. Originating from the work of psychologist William Moulton Marston in the 1920s, DISC is widely used in corporate environments to improve communication, teamwork, and leadership. Unlike typology frameworks like MBTI and the Enneagram, DISC assesses observable behaviors rather than deeper cognitive processes or motivations.
Dominance reflects assertiveness and control over situations.
Influence measures sociability and persuasion skills.
Steadiness evaluates consistency and reliability in behaviors.
Conscientiousness focuses on precision, attention to detail, and task orientation.
Pros: DISC is easy to understand and apply, making it popular for organizational development, leadership training, and conflict resolution. Itโs particularly effective in workplace settings where understanding behavioral differences is crucial for collaboration.
Cons: While practical, DISC lacks depth when it comes to understanding underlying psychological drivers. It doesnโt delve into cognitive functions or emotional patterns like MBTI or Enneagram, making it more suited for short-term behavior modification rather than deep personal growth.
5. StrengthsFinder (CliftonStrengths)
Origins and Background
StrengthsFinder, developed by Donald Clifton in the late 20th century, focuses on identifying and utilizing personal strengths to maximize performance. It is rooted in positive psychology and is widely used in business and leadership development.
Theoretical Essence
StrengthsFinder identifies 34 individual strengths and categorizes them into four domains: Executing, Influencing, Relationship Building, and Strategic Thinking. The idea is that individuals should focus on honing their natural strengths rather than trying to fix their weaknesses.
Practical Application
StrengthsFinder is commonly used in organizational settings to optimize team performance and leadership capabilities. Its major limitation is that it doesnโt offer the same depth of self-awareness or personal growth opportunities as typology frameworks like MBTI or Enneagram.
Pros: Focuses on identifying and leveraging individual strengths, making it practical and results-oriented. Itโs widely used in business and leadership development.
Cons: It doesnโt offer the same depth of self-reflection or holistic view of personality traits and interpersonal dynamics as typology frameworks.
By combining the depth of MBTI and Enneagram with more empirical models like the Big Five, or the actionable skills of EQ frameworks, practitioners can create a balanced and effective program for self-awareness, growth, and relational success. For long-term learning, MBTI and Enneagram remain the cornerstones for deep, transformational understanding.
Hereโs a version with visible, copyable links for each model and the reference section:
References:
Jung, Carl G. (1921): Psychological Types, the foundational theory behind MBTI.
Myers, Isabel Briggs & Myers, Peter B. (1995): Gifts Differing: Understanding Personality Type, an exploration of the MBTI and its applications.
Goleman, Daniel (1995): Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ, the seminal work that popularized the EQ framework.
Marston, William Moulton (1928): Emotions of Normal People, where the DISC modelโs behavioral dimensions originated.
Riso, Don Richard & Hudson, Russ (1996): The Wisdom of the Enneagram, a modern interpretation of the Enneagram system.
Costa, Paul T. Jr. & McCrae, Robert R. (1992): Revised NEO Personality Inventory, detailing the Big Five (OCEAN) traits.
Introversion is often misunderstood term. Forget the stereotype of the shy recluse who dreads social interaction. Introversion and extroversion are not about how much you like people or how outgoing you are. Instead, they’re about where you direct your attention and energy.ย
Proposed by Swiss psychologist Carl Jung, the concept of introversion and extraversion illustrates two worlds wherein an individual exists on: an inner world and an outer world. Your inner world encompasses your thoughts, feelings, memories, and subjective experiences. It’s the landscape of your imagination and self-reflection. The outer world consists of everything external to you – people, places, objects, and the constant flow of information and interaction. Extroverts find their energy in the outer world. They thrive on social interaction, external feedback, and actively connecting with others.
Introverts, on the other hand, gain their energy and actually prioritize listening to their inner world first. They enjoy spending time alone, processing information internally, and engaging in deep reflection. This inward focus allows them to develop rich inner landscapes, become strong observers of the external world, and excel at activities that require concentration and thoughtful analysis. Introverts are often excellent listeners, as their focus on their inner world translates to a genuine interest in understanding the thoughts and feelings of others.
A Look At The Four Types
With a clearer understanding of what is an introvert in mind, and if you are fairly sure you are an introvert, you might be wondering if there is any specific โflavorโ of an introvert that can better explain your uniqueness.
Intuition vs. Sensing: Perceiving the World Through Different Lenses
The way we take in and process information about the world can be categorized as either Intuitive or Sensing. Intuitives are drawn to the abstract and the unseen. They excel at pattern recognition, readily grasping underlying connections and future possibilities. Big-picture thinking comes naturally to them, and they are often brimming with innovative ideas. They might struggle with mundane details, preferring to focus on the broader implications and potential outcomes.
What do you see? Intuition and Sensing can often be simplified as seeing the forest first or the tree first?
Sensors, in contrast, find comfort in the concrete and the present. They are detail-oriented observers, meticulously collecting and analyzing sensory information. Their strength lies in their ability to focus on the here and now, ensuring accuracy and practicality. They excel at creating and maintaining routines, finding comfort in the familiar. While not dismissive of future possibilities, Sensors prioritize the tangible world and the information readily available to their senses.
Combining Sensing & Intuition and Introversion, we have two introverted functions that correspond to two types of introverts:
The Traditionalist, Introverted Sensor (Si): Si-dominant individuals find comfort in familiarity and tradition. They excel at observing details and preserving past experiences. However, they can also be too stubborn and stay in their sensory โcomfort zoneโ and not be adaptable and miss out on new trends or opportunities.
The Visionary, Introverted Intuitive (Ni): With Ni at the forefront, these individuals perceive the world through a lens of possibilities and hidden meanings. They possess a strong foresight and can readily grasp the essence of situations. However, once their vision is formed, they often stick to it stubbornly without willing to take feedback or adjust to the reality of the situation.
Thinking vs. Feeling: Navigating the Decision-Making Landscape
Thinkers and Feelers represent two distinct approaches to decision-making. Thinkers, as the term suggests, prioritize logic and objectivity. When faced with a choice, they meticulously analyze information, weigh pros and cons, and strive for solutions that are fair and consistent. They are drawn to clear-cut principles and frameworks, often employing a step-by-step approach to reach a conclusion. Emotions might play a role in the initial consideration, but ultimately, logic reigns supreme for Thinkers.
Feelers, on the other hand, make decisions with a heart-centered approach. They place significant value on emotions, both their own and those of others. When evaluating a situation, they consider how the decision will impact people involved and how it aligns with their personal values. Empathy is a cornerstone of their decision-making process. While Feelers can be logical, their emotions often hold significant weight in the final verdict.
Combining Thinking and Feeling with Introversion, and we have two introverted functions that correspond to two types of introverts:
The Empathetic Individualist, Introverted Feeler (Fi): Driven by their strong moral compass, Fi-dominant introverts are authentic and compassionate. They excel at understanding the emotions of others and championing causes they believe in. However, their strong convictions can sometimes make them judgmental of those with differing viewpoints.
The Analytical Mind, Introverted Thinker (Ti):Fueled by a thirst for knowledge, Ti-dominant introverts are analytical and systematic thinkers. They enjoy constructing logical frameworks and solving problems efficiently. However, their focus on logic can sometimes make them seem detached or insensitive to the emotions of others.
A Spectrum of Strengths
As you can see, each introverted type brings valuable strengths to the table as well as corresponding weaknesses. Traditionalists provide stability and preserve valuable traditions, visionaries inspire with their foresight and ability to see the bigger picture, empathetic individualists champion what’s right and foster strong connections, and analytical minds bring order and logic to complex situations.
Regardless, a common pitfall (as well as strength) for anyone leading with an introverted function is their stubbornness and single-mindedness that may benefit from being more open to external data and input.
So, which type of introvert do you resonate more with? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below!
Webinar timing: 18 Mar (Mon), 9pm-10pm Singapore time (9am EST)
Do self-limiting beliefs hold you back from unleashing your full potential? Ambitious managers and professionals, known for being hard on themselves, often struggle with these negative self-beliefs which can reinforce a cycle of low self-esteem, weak boundaries and burnout.
The key to breaking this cycle lies in objective self-awareness: firmly recognizing your strengths, and acknowledging the accompanying weaknesses. While various tools frameworks are available to aid in your self-awareness journey, the Myers Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) stands out as a highly comprehensive and popular modern self-discovery framework. It’s widely used by millions of individuals and many Fortune 500 companies to enhance workplace relationships and leadership coaching.
Join our community for this exclusive crash course aimed at helping you conquer your negative self-beliefs and transform them into strengths and confidence through the secrets of the less well-known 8 Cognitive Functions.
Introduction to MBTI and Jungian cognitive functions
A quick crash course on cognitive function definitions
Reflection on how your dominant functions reveal your strengths and corresponding weaknesses
Explore practical strategies for developing your weaker functions
Q&A
The most helpful aspect is I could again a level of self-awareness and how this impacts how I engage with others and what works for me , but also a good list of tips that I can share with others who engage with me often so that they can understand how I work/think.
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If you’re feeling frustrated with the dating scene, you’re not alone. Trying to find the right partner can be both fulfilling and dating experience. There’s no easy formula, just like anything worthwhile in life, but there is a way to equip yourself with the right mindset so you can select better as well as be much more understanding with your partners & special people in your life..
Typology or personality science is a powerful tool that categorizes people into personality patterns, allowing you to overcome psychological biases and lack of information to see the core of another person. In this expert-led session, we will learn and discuss:
Agenda:
Introduction: the role of personality in relationship compatibility
Compatibility vs acceptance, what’s more important?
The biggest hindrance to understanding: ego and naive realism
Introduction to Jungian Function & Temperaments as essential tools for people reading
Statistics and discussion of different temperament pairing and happiness
Q&A and sharing
About the trainer: Tuan Le is a passionate veteran in personality psychology. A certified typology coach, he has spent over 8 years learning and later training the public in the psychological frameworks such as MBTI, Enneagram, Socionics…. He is passionate about fostering better self-awareness and interpersonal understanding through objective and deeper understanding of personalities. Read more
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INFPs, also known as โmediatorsโ or โhealersโ, are one of the 16 personality types identified by the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI). Guided by a strong inner moral compass, INFPs are altruistic and sensitive individuals who truly value authenticity in themselves and others. While they may appear quiet and reserved on the surface, there’s an entire world of imagination, dreams, and deeply held values thriving within them. When it comes to relationships, INFPs long to connect with someone who speaks the language of ideals and vision, sees past surface realities into the profound truths beneath, and is willing to share in life’s poetic beauty.
Finding like-minded souls who can truly understand them and share their vision of authentic living is no easy feat for these dreamy idealists. Naturally, some personality types align well with INFPs, while others may encounter challenges understanding their ways. Letโs explore how different types interact with and relate to INFPs, and the possibilities and limitations of these relationships.
INFP’s Bonds with Fellow NFs (Intuitive-Feelers)
Of all personality types, INFPs tend to be most drawn to other NFs – those emotional idealists who share their depth, empathy, and vision for a better world. Letโs explore the dynamics and compatibility of INFP with each Idealist type:
INFP and INFJ
INFPs and INFJs are highly compatible due to their shared disdain for shallow relationships and their shared capacity for experiencing emotions on a meaningful level. Both have introverted personalities, and understand the value of space and alone time. They have a mutual understanding of intuition and are able to pick up on subtle cues and unspoken feelings, allowing them to connect on a deeper level than many other personality types. Moreover, INFJsโ organized approach can also bring a sense of stability and structure to the sometimes dreamy and idealistic nature of INFPs.
However, there may be a few potential areas of conflict between them. INFPs tend to follow their hunches without worrying too much about where they lead to, whereas INFJs are more concerned with closure. This can lead to INFPs seeing INFJs as rigid, and INFJs seeing INFPs as impractical. They also lack conflict resolution skills and tend to avoid confrontation rather than talking about the issue. That being said, both types are highly understanding of each other’s needs and emotions, and can definitely get past these bumps in the road.
INFP and ENFJ
Though different in expression, INFPs and ENFJs both share a core desire to connect with others in an authentic and meaningful way. Both types share assertiveness and warmth, and they are driven by a desire to be helpful to others. INFPs, with their empathetic nature, have a natural ability to mirror the emotions of others, which can help ENFJs reflect on their own feelings and priorities when they become overly focused on fixing external problems. On the other hand, ENFJs, with their confident and outgoing leadership qualities, are instrumental in helping INFPs manifest their visions by translating ideas into actionable steps. At their best, the INFP provides the dream while the ENFJ helps turn ideas into reality.
The tension in this pairing may arise from the ENFJsโ high energy levels overwhelming the more introverted INFP. INFPs value their individuality and alone time and may see their emotionally expressive ENFJ partner as too clingy. However, with INFPs showing a little more visible signs of affection and communicating their feelings to their partner, the relationship is likely to be balanced and strong, rooted in mutual compassion, understanding, and a sense of comfort.
INFP and ENFP
This highly compatible relationship between INFPs and ENFPs stems from their shared cognitive functions (that are arranged in the opposite order). Both types are adaptable and creative thinkers, but INFPs lean towards independence and reservedness, while ENFPs are generally more outgoing. ENFPs need someone to be spontaneous with, and hence, appreciate INFPsโ laid-back attitude and their willingness to go with the flow. ENFPs encourage curiosity in INFPs and provide them a supportive environment for exploring their visions, ideas and hunches. In turn, INFPs help ENFPs be more reflective, and stay grounded and connected to their core values and emotions. Together the INFP and ENFP feel they have found someone who truly understands their experience of the world.
When there are wide differences in an INFPโs and ENFPโs values, it can create challenges, as both types hold their principles strongly. However, open communication and understanding can help them navigate these issues and strengthen their relationship.
INFP and INFP
The relationship between two INFPs can be incredibly harmonious and fulfilling, as they possess a deep understanding of each other that surpasses any other type. Sharing the same hobbies and creative interests, they have a profound appreciation for the ideas and emotions expressed by their partner. They support and encourage each other’s intuitions and love exploring new ideas and unconventional thinking together. The fact that both are independent individuals contributes to their compatibility. They are two mirrors reflecting each other’s hopes, dreams, vulnerabilities, and complexities. Through shared values and deep empathy, they embark on a journey of self-discovery and mutual growth.
However, these strengths can also become weaknesses when it comes to conflict resolution, as both may struggle with expressing their true feelings, leading to unresolved issues and potential resentment over time. Additionally, day-to-day tasks and responsibilities may pose a challenge, as neither INFP is particularly inclined toward mundane routines. Compatibility may also be affected if both individuals become too rigid in their beliefs, clinging stubbornly to their own notions of right and wrong. Nonetheless, open communication, the division of routine tasks, sharing their inner worlds, and expressing appreciation for one another can help create a strong and fulfilling partnership between two INFPs.
INFP’s Interactions Beyond the NF Realm
While not outright incompatible, the remaining types often have a little harder time grasping the essence of the INFP and may ultimately frustrate their search for depth and meaning:
INFP and Sensing Personalities
Some sensors find themselves in delightful harmony with INFPs, while others may struggle to bridge the gap between their perspectives. Initially, the practical and grounded nature of sensors can help offset the idealistic and imaginative tendencies of INFPs. For example, sensing types often excel in tasks that require attention to detail and following established procedures. When paired with an INFP’s imaginative and creative nature, this combination can lead to a more well-rounded approach to problem-solving and goal achievement.
This can be great in a workplace setting, but in personal relationships these differences in approach and priorities may start to create friction over time. Sensors may grow frustrated with what they perceive as the INFP’s indecisiveness or their focus on emotions and abstract ideas rather than practical matters. Those who excessively prioritize immediate sensory experiences may struggle to understand the “head-in-the-clouds” nature of INFPs. Similarly, INFPs may feel stifled or restricted by the sensors’ emphasis on the present, their fixed routines and conventionality. These contrasting preferences can lead to a lack of understanding and dissatisfaction within the relationship.
INFP and NT (Rational) types
The Rational temperament in the MBTI encompasses four types: INTP, INTJ, ENTP, and ENTJ, all of which share the traits of being intuitive (N) and thinking (T). While some sources argue that NF-NF pairings yield the highest compatibility, several authors contend that the Idealist-Rational pairing is truly the match made in heaven, where the hearts of NF meet the minds of NT. This combination offers a substantial foundation of mutual understanding and shared values, as their Intuition creates a strong connection. Additionally, each type can learn from and be captivated by the differences they bring to the relationship, further enhancing their compatibility.
INFPs’ relationships with the Rational types can vary depending on the context, particularly in workplace and personal life. In the workplace, the dynamic between INFPs and NTs can be especially complementary and beneficial. INFPs’ strengths in empathy, creativity, and understanding emotions can harmonize with the analytical and logical approach of the Rational types. INFPs often bring a fresh perspective and innovative ideas, while the Thinking (T) element of Rational types contributes critical thinking and strategic problem-solving skills. Moreover, both types have a mutual appreciation for abstract ideas and insights due to their Intuition (N) function. The combination of these different strengths can lead to effective collaboration and well-rounded outcomes.
When it comes to their personal relationships, some Rational types may have trouble getting along with INFPs in the long run. While INFPs operate according to their internal sense of ethics and desire for authentic relationships, NTs prioritize logic and practicality over emotional considerations, which can directly clash with the sensitive and idealistic nature of INFPs. INFPs may not mind it too much in the workplace, but in personal relationships they may frequently feel criticized and misunderstood, unable to bridge the divide between cold logic and human needs. However, the relationship can still be a source of growth and learning, with Rational types gaining insight into the emotional realm and INFPs benefiting from their partners’ logical analysis and thinking.
Conclusion
INFPsโ compassionate and intuitive nature can be a source of deep understanding and empathy, and they are at their best when these qualities and their deeply held values are truly appreciated by their partners. Hence, this type typically finds great solace and similarity with other NF (Idealist) types. For the more adventurous INFPs, pairing with NT (Rational) or sensing-dominant types can present valuable opportunities for fresh perspectives and personal growth. The S-N difference, however, might be the most significant barrier and point of disappointment later on in the relationship, as INFP is the type that places a great deal of values on depth and abstract thoughts that a sensing partner might not be able to meet to a satisfactory extent.
Overall, compatibility goes beyond personality types alone and requires open communication, mutual respect, and a willingness to embrace differences. The key to successful relationships lies in recognizing the unique strengths and challenges of each personality type and embracing the opportunity for personal and collective growth.
Have you ever met someone who seemed to just “get” you from the very beginning? For INFPs and INFJs, that connection can feel almost magical. Both types are deeply empathetic, introspective, and committed to personal growth. It’s easy to imagine that these two personalities would be the perfect match. However, like any other pairing, there are several differences between them, leading to unique challenges that they have to navigate. How do these similarities and differences play out in real-life relationships? Let’s take a closer look.
But first, let’s have a quick overview of INFJsโ and INFPsโ cognitive functions, which will serve as a reference throughout the article. Cognitive functions are the mental processes- the bricks that build the house which is your personality! Even though they have only one letter different, INFJ and INFP actually share zero common cognitive functions (in the top 4)! There are a total of eight cognitive functions with each MBTI personality type having a unique sequence of the functions. Simply put, the top or dominant function has the strongest influence on our thoughts and behaviors followed by auxiliary, tertiaryโฆ. The top-four cognitive functions of INFJs and INFPs are:
INFJ
INFP
Dominant
Introverted Intuition (Ni) – relies on abstract connections, speculates about potential and potential implications.
Introverted Feeling (Fi) – relies on value judgment – a deep understanding of personal values and beliefs, and a desire to live in congruence with them.
Auxiliary
Extraverted Feeling (Fe) – relies on sensitivity to the emotional states of others and feelings of harmony with the world.
Extraverted Intuition (Ne) – relies on abstract possibilities, generates novel ideas about what things can be.
Tertiary
Introverted Thinking (Ti) – uses personal framework of technical knowledge and skill to prevent/avoid/solve problems
Introverted Sensing (Si) – relies on sensory details, processes concrete details via comparing/contrasting with past experiences.
Inferior
Extraverted Sensing (Se) – maintains direct relationship to the world via physical sensations.
Extraverted Thinking (Te) – relies on knowledge of external systems, uses empirical data to make effective decisions
For a more detailed explanation and examples for each cognitive function, click here.
Now that we have a better understanding of their cognitive functions, we can examine how these functions interact to create the foundation of great INFJ-INFP relationships.
What draws INFJ and INFP to each other?
INFJs and INFPs share a lot of similarities, which is why they are often considered to be highly compatible. Some of them include:
Emotional compatibility
INFJs and INFPs are highly compatible due to their shared capacity for experiencing emotions on a deep and meaningful level. Both types possess a strong sense of empathy and prioritize emotional connection in their relationships. INFJs utilize their Extraverted Feeling (Fe) function to intuitively understand the emotions and needs of their partner. They often place their partner’s feelings above their own, striving to maintain peace and harmony in the relationship.
Meanwhile, INFPs use their dominant Introverted Feeling (Fi) function to remain true to their own emotions while simultaneously empathizing with their partner by understanding their emotions. Since INFJsโ Feeling function is directed outwards, they can quickly realize how others are feeling but often have trouble identifying their own emotions. INFPs help them explore their feelings by mirroring them, and provide them a safe space to express themselves without any fear of judgment.
Intuitive connection
Both INFJs and INFPs share a deep connection through their intuitive nature. INFJs have dominant Introverted Intuition (Ni), which provides them with sudden flashes of insight into the meaning of things, sometimes in the form of images, words, or even symbols. This can be perceived as strange or confusing by other personality types, but INFPs can easily understand and appreciate their thought process, and donโt ask for logical justifications for their insights. INFPs’ auxiliary function, Extraverted Intuition (Ne), allows them to make connections between different ideas and things in their environment and make predictions. Although their Intuition is directed outwards, they can still relate to the unexplainable sense of just โknowingโ about something.
This mutual understanding of intuition creates a profound level of communication and empathy between INFJs and INFPs. They are able to pick up on subtle cues and unspoken feelings, allowing them to connect on a deeper level than many other personality types. This makes them highly compatible in both friendships and romantic relationships.
A shared disdain for shallow relationships
INFJs and INFPs share a strong aversion to shallow relationships. They prioritize deep and meaningful connections and are often dissatisfied with superficial interactions. As intuitive feelers, they crave authenticity and are drawn to others who share their values. This shared disdain for superficial relationships creates a strong bond between these two personality types, allowing them to build a relationship based on trust, emotional depth, and a mutual desire for genuine connection.
Balanced planning and exploration:
INFJs and INFPs complement each other’s tendencies towards action and contemplation. INFPs inspire INFJs to take a more relaxed approach to their day-to-day life and enjoy the journey rather than focusing solely on the destination. On the other hand, INFJs motivate INFPs to come up with concrete plans and take action towards achieving their ideas. Together, they can strike a balance between dreaming and doing, creating a harmonious partnership.
INFJs, being a “J” type, are naturally inclined towards closure, planning, and getting things done. They tend to be perfectionists, always striving for the best solution to a problem, and often stressing about getting everything done on time. In contrast, INFPs, being a “P” type, are more focused on exploration and trying out different options. They enjoy seeing where the plan takes them, and are not as worried about sticking to a strict schedule. This is where they balance each other out. INFJs help INFPs pare down their ideas and options to the most suitable ones (using their Ni), and INFPs prevent INFJs from getting caught up in planning and overlooking opportunities for exploration (using their Ne).
Respect for boundaries
INFJs and INFPs both have introverted personalities, and they understand the value of space and alone time. They understand that personal space is not a sign of disinterest or dislike, but a necessary part of recharging and reflecting. They appreciate each other’s need for solitude and respect it, without feeling neglected or hurt. They can match each other’s energy and wavelength, creating a harmonious balance in the relationship. Being introverts, they also prefer meaningful conversations over small talk, which deepens their emotional connection.
Shared interests and preferences
INFJs and INFPs share a lot of common interests and values, which makes them compatible partners. They both tend to have hobbies that involve creativity and introspection, such as reading, writing, painting, or playing music. They also share a preference for people who are thoughtful and empathetic, and both tend to value deep and meaningful connections with others over superficial ones. In terms of their social lives, both INFJs and INFPs tend to prefer a small circle of close friends rather than a large group of acquaintances, and they generally prefer quieter, more low-key activities over loud, crowded events.
Additionally, both types have deep appreciation for art and the meaning it brings to life. Last but not least, they both tend to be non-materialistic, valuing meaning and depth over material possessions and superficial glamor. These shared values and interests create a strong bond between INFJs and INFPs, making them a natural match for one another.
Potential conflicts in INFJ-INFP relationships
While INFJs and INFPs share many similarities that make them compatible, their different approaches to processing and expressing emotions can create potential areas of conflict, such as below.
Prioritization of values
While both INFJs and INFPs prioritize values, they differ in their focus. INFJs tend to prioritize social values and harmony (Fe) while INFPs prioritize their individual values and feelings (Fi). This difference in focus can lead to conflicts, especially when it comes to decision-making as a couple. Conflict can also arise when it comes to issues that affect the broader society. INFJs may be more willing to compromise their individual values in the interest of social harmony, while INFPs may get defensive and feel more strongly about sticking to their personal values, even if it means going against the norm. These differences in prioritization can lead to misunderstandings and disagreements between the two types.ย
Communication challenges
Both INFJs and INFPs struggle with expressing their own needs and emotions in a clear and direct manner. INFJs may expect their partners to anticipate their emotions as they do for their partners, leading to unrealistic expectations and potential conflict. On the other hand, INFPs may become defensive and withdraw from conflict, leading to unresolved resentment. These communication challenges can put a strain on the relationship and make it difficult to maintain a healthy and fulfilling partnership.
Pursuit of knowledge
Another potential area of conflict between INFJs and INFPs stems from their different approaches to seeking knowledge. While both types are idealistic and passionate about their beliefs, INFPs tend to have a more free-form approach to intellectual exploration, following their hunches (Ne) without worrying too much about confirmation. In contrast, INFJs are highly focused on testing and confirming their ideas and theories (due to their Ni). This divergence in approach can lead to misunderstandings, with INFPs potentially seeing INFJs as rigid and unyielding, and INFJs seeing INFPs as impractical or lost in a dream world.
Stress Responses
Both INFJs and INFPs have different stress responses, which can cause conflict in their relationship. INFJs tend to resort to their inferior function Extraverted Sensing (Se) under stress, leading to self-indulgence in sensory pleasures like binge-eating, smoking, drinking, or watching TV for hours, while ignoring their responsibilities. On the other hand, INFPs under stress tend to resort to their inferior function, Extraverted Thinking (Te), overwhelmed by an urge to organize their surroundings and frantically โfixโ things.
This can cause conflict between them when INFJs give in to their desires and engage in sensory activities. As a result, INFPs may perceive them as irresponsible or selfish, which could lead to resentment. In the same way, when INFPs become critical, extremely focused, and tend to blame others, INFJs may view them as overpowering or harsh, which can cause tension and disagreements in their relationship.
Keeping the spark alive: Tips for a healthy INFJ-INFP relationship
To improve your relationship, it’s important for both INFPs and INFJs to remember that the other person is sensitive and has their own unique needs. INFPs should be willing to open up about their thoughts and feelings, which will help INFJs feel that the relationship is healthy and intimate. INFJs should be mindful of INFPs’ strong values and avoid pressuring them to conform to their own beliefs. Instead, they should approach inquiries with a non-judgmental tone.
When problems arise, it’s important for both INFJs and INFPs to communicate openly and calmly, focusing on the behavior or action rather than attacking the person. They should avoid letting problems fester and seek to resolve them together, with empathy and understanding.
Finally, it’s important to have interests outside of the relationship, to avoid becoming overly focused or dependent on each other.
Conclusion
In conclusion, the INFJ-INFP pairing is a truly fascinating and harmonious relationship dynamic. The combination of the INFJ’s deep intuition and insight with the INFP’s profound empathy and authenticity creates a deep connection that is both rare and beautiful. These two personality types have the ability to understand and appreciate each other on a level that few others can reach. While there may be challenges along the way, these two personality types have a lot to offer each other, and can create a deep and fulfilling connection if they’re willing to communicate openly and work together.
However, the journey doesn’t end here. To enhance their connection and better understand themselves and each other, INFJs and INFPs in a relationship should continue to explore their personality type in more depth. You can check out the detailed INFJ and INFP type descriptions on our website, and additional valuable insights into your own and your partner’s personality traits, strengths, and weaknesses. Armed with this understanding, INFJ and INFP partners can learn how to support each other in more customized ways and navigate the intricacies of their relationship more effectively.
Do you live with one foot in the physical world and one in the realm of imagination? Are you an empathetic and introspective person but struggle with explaining to others the rich inner landscape of ideas and emotions within you? If so, you may find yourself caught in the INFJ/INFP tug-of-war – two of the most idealistic personality types under the Myer Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) system.
As sensitive souls and visionaries, INFJs and INFPs share some similarities in both letters and outward behaviors, and may appear nearly interchangeable on the surface. However, as we delve deeper into the analysis of their cognitive functions, we find that they have significant yet subtle differences, from how they process information and make decisions to how they handle their own and others’ emotions. Gaining insight into these differences can be a profoundly rewarding experience and help you embrace the gifts of your unique personality.
What are Cognitive Functions?
When it comes to differentiating between such similar personality types, understanding their cognitive functions is the key as they provide a more nuanced and precise understanding of the inner minds of each type.Cognitive functions are the mental processes used by individuals to gather information and make decisions. There are 4 cognitive processes: Feeling, Thinking, Intuition and Sensing, and they can be either introverted (directed inwards) or extraverted (directed outwards), resulting in 8 cognitive functions.
In the MBTI framework, each type is characterized predominantly by the relative dominance of 4 functions: a dominant, auxiliary, tertiary, and inferior function. Much like our dominant hand versus non-dominant hand, we have a greater level of confidence and comfort using our dominant function compared to the ones lower in our functional stack. The further we move down the stack towards our auxiliary, tertiary and then inferior function, the less control and awareness we have over its influence on us. To understand better how the cognitive function stack is determined for a particular type, you can read the detailed guide here.
Understanding the cognitive functions of INFJs and INFPs is like uncovering the hidden gears that drive their unique personalities. Each type has a unique stack of cognitive functions, which are explained below.
INFJ
INFP
Dominant
Introverted Intuition (Ni) – relies on abstract connections, speculates about potential and potential implications.
Introverted Feeling (Fi) – relies on a deep understanding of personal values and beliefs, and a desire to live in congruence with them.
Auxiliary
Extraverted Feeling (Fe) – relies on sensitivity to the emotional states of others and feelings of harmony with the world.
Extraverted Intuition (Ne) – relies on abstract possibilities, generates novel ideas about what things can be.
Tertiary
Introverted Thinking (Ti) – uses personal framework of technical knowledge and skill to prevent/avoid/solve problems
Introverted Sensing (Si) – relies on sensory details, processes concrete details via comparing/contrasting with past experiences.
Inferior
Extraverted Sensing (Se) – maintains direct relationship to the world via physical sensations.
Extraverted Thinking (Te) – relies on knowledge of external systems, uses empirical data to make effective decisions
For a more detailed explanation and examples for each cognitive function, click here.
Distinguishing Between INFJ and INFP
Now that we have a better understanding of the cognitive functions that INFJs and INFPs use, we can examine how these functions shape their personalities and lead to the following differences in their behavior and preferences.
Analytical vs Artistic Thinking
One of the primary differences between INFJ and INFP is how they approach the world and process information. INFJs take a more analytical approach, using their dominant Introverted Intuition (Ni) to understand the purpose and meaning of things, narrowing down possibilities to the most suitable ones. They look outside in, searching for the underlying patterns and themes and observing how different parts work together to form a cohesive whole.
On the other hand, INFPs lean more towards artistic and creative thinking. Guided by their values and emotions (due to their Fi), they look inside out, focusing on how they feel about things rather than their intended purpose or meaning. Furthermore, their Ne, which is exploratory in nature, also helps them generate multiple possibilities and ideas, allowing them to approach problems from a creative and imaginative standpoint.
Decisive vs Exploratory Decision Making
Another difference between INFJ and INFP is their approach to decision-making. INFJs tend to be decisive and efficient in reaching a decision. They meticulously analyze, and pare down all the available options to reach their desired goals (using their Ni, often supported by their Ti) without any perceived waste of time or resources. This makes them strategic, thoughtful, and observant in their decision-making approach.
On the other hand, INFPs have an authentic love and appreciation for exploring new experiences, and aren’t necessarily fixated on finding the one “perfect” solution. They tend to generate a plethora of ideas using their Ne, often throwing every possible option at the wall to see what sticks. Their satisfaction comes from the process of uncovering possibilities that extend beyond the present reality, rather than the decision itself. This approach to decision-making is marked by an open-minded and exploratory mindset that values creativity and imagination.
Absorbing vs Mirroring Emotions
INFJs are highly attuned to the emotions of others due to their Fe, which makes them expert social chameleons. They have a remarkable ability to read the room quickly thanks to the input from their Extraverted Sensing (Se), discerning subtle changes in others’ tone, body language, and behavior, and adapt their own behavior to promote social harmony. However, this ability to absorb others’ emotions can be overwhelming and often leaves INFJs struggling to differentiate their own feelings from those of others.
On the other hand, INFPs’ Introverted Feeling (Fi) is more focused on their own values, morals, and emotions. They are not likely to alter their behavior to please others, as they prioritize their own feelings and authenticity. INFPs can still very well understand what others are going through by putting themselves in their shoes, but they only mirror the emotions of others rather than absorbing them. This makes it easier for them to maintain a healthy emotional distance and not get overwhelmed by the emotions of others. This emotional clarity also allows them to remain true to themselves and their values, often leading them to pursue creative outlets where they can express themselves freely.
Community-Oriented vs Individualistic Relationship Orientation
INFJs and INFPs approach their relationships with others in very distinct ways. INFJs, due to their Fe, are community-oriented people, guided by a vision of how relationships and society โought to beโ. They tend to take on a more active and assertive role in relationships, seeking to build connections and harmony, and facilitate communication. This, combined with their ability to value shared experiences of the group, often also leads them to be chosen for positions of authority and leadership roles by others, even if they do not actively seek them.
While INFJs have a stronger desire to build community, INFPs prefer more intimate connections. INFPs lead with their hearts, following their personal values and beliefs (due to their Fi). INFPs approach relationships with an idealistic and personalized focus. They prefer intimate one-on-one connections, built on profound emotional understanding and shared values. However, they may struggle with setting clear boundaries and asserting themselves, which can lead to difficulties in expressing their needs and built-up resentment.
Developing a โSensorโs Eyeโ vs a โThinkerโs Mindโ
Personal growth and development are important to both INFJs and INFPs, but their paths to achieving it can be quite different. Due to their inferior functions, they may struggle in certain areas and experience unique challenges. Inferior functions represent an aspirational but weak or โtip toeingโ part of oneโs personality. People rarely notice their inferior functions under normal conditions. However, when stressed or fatigued, these weaker functions emerge in unintended and disruptive ways. People are said to โbe in the gripโ of the inferior functions in this situation. Healthy INFJs and INFPs see their inferior functions not as weaknesses but opportunities to grow. Through conscious dedication, what was once a liability can be transformed into a source of strength and depth.
INFJs pursue growth through cultivating their inferior Extraverted Sensing (Se) function. In the grip, the dark side of Se takes hold, inducing escapism through overindulgence in sensory pleasures. INFJs may binge watch TV, overeat, or become shortsighted in pleasure-seeking, which they regret later when the stress subsides. To strengthen Se, INFJs must gain awareness of this unconscious tendency and learn control. Moreover, INFJs prioritize their personal insights and โgut feelingsโ over concrete details. Healthy INFJs aspire to strengthen Se by cultivating awareness of the external world, and being more present and responsive to external sensory stimuli. What seemed abstract must become visceral. Through practice and patience, INFJs can develop a “sensor’s eye” able to see beyond concepts to practical realities.
In contrast, INFPs nurture their Extraverted Thinking (Te) to develop mastery. When in the grip of Te, INFPs tend to get hyper-critical of themselves and others, frantically solving problems or nitpicking processes. They must tame their urge to organize or โfixโ everything when stressed through hypercriticism or forced efficiency. Healthy INFPs aspire to strengthen Te through developing a pragmatic “thinker’s mind.” Te demands analyzing information objectively, stepping away from personal values to evaluate options rationally and decisively. For INFPs, it means moving away from imagination to implementation by formulating feasible strategies and evaluating resources effectively.
Conclusion
Now that you know the key differences between INFJs and INFPs, where do you stand? Take some time to reflect on which tendencies feel most natural and authentic to you. Remember, self-discovery is a lifelong journey and determining your personality type is just the beginning. It can be a powerful tool to help you embrace your strengths and chart your own path in life. For INFPs, recognizing your idealism and depth of caring can help you set boundaries when needed and express your authentic feelings. Similarly, if you are an INFJ, understanding your empathy and desire for harmony can guide you towards finding balance and connecting with your own needs.
If you still feel conflicted, take the next step and read the detailed descriptions of both the INFJ and INFP personality types. It will provide you with a framework to explore the depths of who you are – and who you want to become. Use this knowledge as a springboard to continue your growth, follow your purpose, and build authentic relationships where your gifts are truly appreciated.
INTP is one of the 16 Myers & Briggs personality types, characterized by introversion, intuition, thinking, and perception. INTPs, also known as โarchitectsโ, are known for their intellectual curiosity, open-mindedness, and willingness to explore different possibilities. They are quiet and private individuals, who rely on principles and logical reasoning to understand their thoughts and ideas, and pursue knowledge. They enjoy engaging in intellectual conversations and may even get into arguments with others just for the sake of it.
INTPs are often perfectionists and are driven by the desire for personal competence. They have an innate ability to break down complex situations and come up with practical and innovative solutions with precision and accuracy. They have an optimistic outlook and a resourceful attitude, and are able to turn their ideas into reality with their problem-solving skills. However, sometimes their ideas can be so complex that they may have trouble communicating them to others. INTPs are drawn to logical systems and are often interested in science, mathematics, and technology.
Cognitive Functions of INTPs:
To gain insight into the characteristics of INTP personalities, it is helpful to understand the dominant and auxiliary cognitive functions that drive them. According to the MBTI system, each personality type has a set of cognitive functions that they use most frequently, which leads to consistent patterns and characteristics. For INTPs,
Dominant Ti: An Introverted Thinking (Ti) function allows individuals to analyze and process the world around them internally through logical and objective thinking. These individuals use their naturally technical mind to identify the inner workings and mechanics of systems. Ti allows this type to disregard feeling and sensation to fully immerse in the governing logical frameworks and devise a way to gain leverage based on this understanding. They enjoy devising ingenious solutions to interesting & challenging problems.
Auxiliary Ne: Extraverted Intuition (Ne) allows an individual to generate new ideas, explore possibilities, and see connections between seemingly unrelated things. This function is always looking for ways to bring new elements into a situation, to create new patterns, to relate one thing to another in a new way.
For introverted thinkers to be productive, they must have a strong auxiliary cognitive function to provide perception and support for their thinking. Auxiliary Ne allows INTPs to consider possibilities and potential outcomes that may not have been immediately apparent through logical thinking alone. INTPs first use their dominant function, Introverted Thinking (Ti), to understand the logical structure of a situation. Then, they use their auxiliary function, Extraverted Intuition (Ne), to consider the potential impacts and outcomes of that situation in the real world, which makes them appear more rational and logical.
Strengths
Like all personality types, INFPs have a combination of strengths and weaknesses. Some of strengths of INTPs include:
Creative problem-solving: INTPs are logical and analytical thinkers, which makes them great problem-solvers. Their dominant Ti helps them methodically assess a situation and come up with creative solutions to problems. They have an instinctive feel for what will work and what won’t, hence, they are often good at anticipating potential problems and being prepared for them.
Independence and perseverance: INTPs prefer to work independently and donโt need much supervision. Their strong thinking function equips them with mental resources required for completing tasks without being micromanaged. INTPs are also very dedicated and focused, able to concentrate better than most types because they limit their search to only what is relevant to the issue at hand.
Intellectual insights: INTPs are probably the most intellectually profound of all the types. Their dominant Ti gives them intellectual curiosity and creative brilliance, while their auxiliary Ne brings a deeper insight and understanding of situations that cannot be reached by thinking alone. With both of these qualities combined, INTPs are able to think in extremely complex ways.
Objectivity: INTPs are committed to seeking truth and objectivity. They strive to eliminate errors and inconsistencies, without being swayed by other peopleโs ideas. This allows for some truly profound contribution in systems and theories that can be felt a long time after their lifetimes.
Weaknesses
INTPs may have some potential weaknesses that could impact their personal life, relationships, as well as their performance in their workplace. These weaknesses may include the following.
Neglecting routine and mundane tasks: Just like other Ne-dominant types, INTPs are weak with sensory and practical details,being so absorbed in their thoughts and ideas that they neglect routine matters such as paying bills, meeting deadlines etc. This can also result in them not conforming to basic societal or workplace expectations which they may think as trivial or boring.
Difficulty with reading and using emotions: INTPs may struggle with understanding and expressing their emotions, as well as of others, mainly due to Feeling being their inferior function. They also avoid engaging in small talk and may come across as disinterested or aloof. This can make them appear unapproachable in social situations, and they may have trouble building and maintaining relationships, both personally and professionally.
Perfectionism: INTPs’ perfectionism can lead to high standards and a drive for excellence, but it can also hold them back and prevent them from taking action. Their Ti sometimes pushes them to over-analyze every possible solution while trying to find the perfect one. They become obsessed with getting everything “just right”, and this significantly hinders progress in their endeavors
Intellectual Pride: INTPs base their self-image on being ingenious, autonomous, and resolute. However, their pride in their own ingenuity can sometimes generate hostility and defensive responses from others. They may also be a bit snobbish at times, showing impatience with others who are less endowed with intellectual ability or less driven.
Career choice
It is important for INTPs to choose a career that aligns with their interests and allows them to use their strengths and skills. They may also benefit from careers that allow them to work independently and have the freedom to think creatively and come up with new solutions to problems.
Scientists and engineers: INTPs may enjoy careers in scientific research, where they can use their logical thinking skills to understand complex systems and processes. They may also use their creativity and ability to generate new ideas, owing to their auxiliary Ne, to come up with innovative hypotheses and projects. INTPs are naturally drawn to technology, so a career in innovative fields like computer engineering is a great fit too.ย
System Architects and designers: INTPs are interested in understanding the patterns and structures of systems in relation to their immediate context. Their Ti helps them piece individual pieces together to envision how a complex system would work, which may lead them to careers related to architecture or design.
Musicians: INTPs do not restrict their analytical thinking and intuitive skills to science and engineering fields only; they also make excellent musicians. Many INTP musicians say that they can actually โhearโ the music in their mind before they have even composed a song. They may use their highly developed analytical and intuitive skills to identify the elements of a song that would make it effective, and then figure out ways to improve or enhance those elements.
Entrepreneurs and business managers: INTPs have a passion for ideas and can excel in a business career by leveraging their analytical instincts and innovative spirit. Their intuition, coupled with their ambition, can drive them to success in the business world.
Some careers that may not be the best fit for INTPs include those that involve a lot of social interaction, public speaking, and emotional intelligence, as they tend to be more logical, reserved and introverted. Some examples include sales, customer service, marketing, and human resources.
Relationships
INTPs approach relationships in a rational and calm manner. They value independence in their relationships, and appreciate when their partner gives them the space they need to pursue their own interests and goals and would be more than happy to do the same for their partners.ย
INTPs enjoy engaging in intellectual and meaningful conversations with their partner, but may struggle with understanding and expressing emotional needs. They are even-tempered and easy to get along with, but have a tendency to be preoccupied with their own ideas, leading them to forget important dates or events in their relationships, which can become a source of conflict. With maturity and self-awareness, INTPs can learn to balance their logical and emotional sides in their relationships, and act with consideration while showing emotional needs and appreciation more skillfully.
As parents, INTPs do not impose their own expectations on their children, and treat each child as a rational individual with their own rights and privileges. They encourage their children to take responsibility for their own lives and to make their own decisions.
In conclusion, INTPs are individuals who are not just curious, but are driven to uncover the wisdom of the world and share it with others. They possess a unique blend of analytical and logical thinking paired with an innate drive to uncover the deeper truths and principles of the world around them. Independent and self-motivated, INTPs are driven to push beyond the surface level of understanding, bring next-level performance and innovation to the workplace or even mankind with their ingenuity!